Introduction!

 

Well, Hello!

disclaimer : this is my first blog, hehe. Be nice to me, will ya?

NAME

My name is Farrel Zultiarsyah DK. The name "Farrel" was given by my dad, it means "brave". What do you think? Am I brave? It's yours to judge hahaha. "Zultiarsyah" stands for DZULhijjah (the Islamic month when I was born), YoewaTI (my mom's name), ARman (my dad's name), and the last one is SYAH (meaning that their marriage is legal) AHAHAHA.

'DKnya apaan rel?'

Drift King (?), Donkey Kong (?), you name it ahahah. but it actually stands for Dewa Kartanagara. Cool isn't it? It is a combination of my grandpas' names

BTW, my posts won't always be in English. So don't expect much from me haha.


WHY am I making blogs

I am just trying to express my feelings into words. Like all of you guys who read this, I experienced a lot of things. But, maybe some of mine didn't happen to you. SO, I'll try to summarize everything so you can take lessons from it hehe. The other reason is, actually I am trying my best to reach Altruism. It's meaning is : "To care about other person without thinking about ourself".
 
Some of you might ask 'Why tho? It must be sad to live a life like that'. To be honest, I think that's my way of life ahahah. I just like the sight of other people's happiness, especially if their reason is me or something that I did for them. It feels soooo good. BUT, most of the time I still feel sad if they don't recognize my effort or appreciate it. Therefore, still sooo much for me to learn.

You can help me too!

I will tell you more about me in the next blog
(kalo ga mager) hehe


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