My Journey to Altruism (Part 1 - Sincerity)

 My Journey to Altruism

Since this is a personal blog. So, let's just try to do this casually ahahahah (padahal gabisa bikin serius).

Sincerity

Soo, for me, sincerity is like the fundamental thing of altruism. Why? Because those things demand you to do something without expecting anything back. It's hard, like VERY VERY HARD. But, once you've get the hang of it, you'll feel better in everything you do and accept.

How's it going for me

At first it went really really bad. Maybe because I was raised in a concept of "If I do something good, I will get my reward". It's not bad actually. I've lived in that idealism for like 16 years. Until something BIG (I will tell the story about this later) hit me ahahahah. After that downfall, finally I started to learn about sincerity, in a hard way. 

Not every good deeds you've done will give you something good in return. As I said before, it was really really hard at first. Expectation kills you, man. It could literally kill you. That's why you should lower your expectation. I got devastated every time my expectations don't meet. I could think of it like for days, it disturbed my routine, it made me sad. 

Now, it's not like I've mastered this. But, at least I'm better than who I was before. Lots of things pushed me to become like this. People, conditions, socials, etc. Hope I will get even better, later. 










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